Author: Kat Berney

  • A woman holding pepper spray

    For every complex problem there is always an answer that is simple, clear and wrong.

    We often see these answers crop up when dealing with the wicked social issue that is violence in our society.

    There is currently a petition circulating online asking for legislation changes that would allow women to carry pepper spray.

    I absolutely appreciate that in the wake of the crimes in Bondi people are feeling confronted and afraid, which comes with the need for action.

    I can offer assurances to these people. There is a lot of meaningful work happening across the country. For the first time in a decade, we have a government who is genuinely invested in reducing violence against women.

    In 2018 the Australian Party’s Senator Fraser Anning pushed for a bill that would allow pepper spray to be imported into the country and would legalise its use in all states and territories for self-defence. Mr Anning’s motion was rejected due to the complexities of how the legalisation of pepper spray could be more broadly weaponised. That hasn’t changed.

    I am concerned about how this horrific event is being weaponised, even from those with the best of intentions who are hoping to shine a light on gender-based violence.

    In trying to advocate for women’s safety, they are demanding reactive policy with potentially catastrophic outcomes.

    This campaign has not come from the public sector or government despite some false claims that my colleagues and I are fully supportive.

    We are certainly not.

    Reactive response like this lacks a trauma-informed lens. It puts the responsibility of the choices of one individual onto victims and does not address the core issues of male violence.

    I have read completely irresponsible rhetoric in the Daily Mail that has suggested if women had pepper spray the Bondi attacks would have been stopped. Let me be exceptionally clear – there is zero evidence to support this claim.

    The attacker was neutralised with a weapon– not pepper spray- by a senior police officer. This would have been an educated choice based on training and years of experience by the officer who did an exceptional job.

    The issue with the blanket statement ‘pepper spray reduces violence against women’ is that there isn’t evidence to support it.

    The ABS personal safety survey from 2022 demonstrates in the most recent incidents of violence by a male, the perpetrator was more likely to be someone the woman knew (85%) than a stranger (16%). The perpetrator was most commonly an intimate partner (53%), including a cohabiting partner (28%), and boyfriend or date (25%).

    The data tells an important story of how and who women need to be protected from.

    What are we suggesting will happen when a potential victim is armed with pepper spray? What happens when the violence escalates and the perpetrator is also armed with the same weapon?

    If women and non-binary folk can carry pepper spray, so can men. So can gangs. So can everyone.

    Pepper spray is legalised in WA, however the legislation requires a high threshold for people to be able to carry it – as it should.

    There is clear evidence that shows the misuse of pepper spray can cause severe injury and even death.

    In 2022, a 20-year review into people with pepper spray injuries that presented to emergency departments in the United States (where pepper spray is freely available) concluded that patients with pepper spray-related injuries tended to be older children and young adults. Not people protecting themselves from lone wolf attacks.

    In the wake of widespread protests in 2020, it was found that protestors and police were both using pepper spray as well as its far-stronger counterpart, bear spray.

    This study and many others find that the use of pepper spray is not effective in reducing rates of violence.

    The petition does not address the role that men need to have in being a voice in the protection of women. They have to be involved in challenging systems and power structures that entrench the view that women are responsible for the violence that happens to them.

    The simple argument that ‘women need to carry pepper spray’ creates a neat media narrative to avoid having that tough conversation on a national scale.

    Gender-based violence and men’s violence is mostly importantly an issue for men to take the lead on.

    Carrying a concealed weapon simply supports the idea that men don’t have an active role to play in the prevention of violence.

    There is a lot of work happening across the country to address these issues and I would encourage all people who want change to engage with established campaigns and organisations who champion the issue of women’s safety to Parliament in a way the ensures they will really be kept safe.

     

     

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  • Online dating apps have become an integral part of human connection in the digital age. For many it’s a convenient way to connect, have fun and fall in love. Like traditional dating you have bad dates,  mortifying message exchanges after refreshing yourself at the local with your friends. It seems easy and a good way to find you person.

    There is a darker experience of online dating, though. Research from Australian Institute of Criminology showed three out of four participants in the study had been exposed to sexual violence, facilitated through a dating application.

    It also showcases the attitudes that are prevalent in society towards women and girls and the behaviours that are commonly experienced by them online, and the gendered impacts that has on women’s participation in the digital realm.

    In response to the rise of sexual violence, and concerns  from the eSafety commission, Minister for Communications Michelle Rowland MP set up a National Round table bringing together; government, civil society and tech to talk about the current issues in Australia and understand what solutions and opportunities for change exist in an Australian legal and cultural context.

    There will be no singular linear solution, violence against women is a wicked social policy issue and dating apps are one niche aspect makes up a broader communications eco system.

    The intersection between different communities and people’s perceptions of personal safety also needs to be taken into consideration.

    The usability of these applications can make it easier to find matches on other platforms; Tinder offers a Facebook login which can lead to your facebook profile showing up as a suggested friend option to people who you’ve matched with on Tinder (who also use facebook as a sign in option). There’s certainly a safety concern there.

    Similarly, other app engagement strategies encourage and incentivise linking to personal social media accounts, as access to that data set is incredibly valuable for further marketing purpose. For this reason we need big tech to join the discussion.

    Addressing the problem at one point won’t necessarily address the problem elsewhere, but designing a best practice national standard for dating apps hopefully will lead to transforming the overall communications safety standard.

    Last week Kat Berney did numerous media interviews last week explaining that online dating and safety was more complex that just ID verification. Picture: Supplied

    Kat Berney, Director of the National Women’s Safety Alliance, did numerous media interviews last week explaining that online dating and safety was more complex that just ID verification. Picture: Supplied

    This round table is great start in what needs to be a detailed discussion between key stake holders and most crucially understanding the breadth of user experience.

    The ways someone can use a dating app to harass or exert violence on another person is very dynamic and comprehensive, including both online and face-to-face abuse, pressure to send material, extortion, digital stalking, physical stalking, online facilitated child abuse, manipulation of users who have children to access their children.

    There are a wide net of opportunities for perpetrators, so it can look different depending on the complainant’s experience.

    Addressing dating app safety is multi-faceted, especially as it’s common for people to move off the dating app itself quickly.

    We need to explore opportunities to bridge the gap between different platforms  – for example, consider a couple moving their initial match and conversation from Tinder onto WhatsApp. How will they stay safe? It would help understand common behaviours when moving between platforms and risks that are then introduced along with potentially mapping perpetrator behaviour.

    Some “safety features” might actually have the opposite effect. For example, identity verification has the potential to inadvertently jeopardise the safety of some users with LGBTIQ+ status who are not ready to disclose.

    Identity verification also isn’t a compulsory feature of dating apps. The domestic, family and sexual violence sector is calling for mandatory ID checks, but this needs to be a collaborative piece of work examining impacts on varying communities.

    Current ID verification is voluntary and it’s been shown that some of the verification systems can be ‘’gamed’’, so perpetrators could effectively pose as someone else using a profile of photos that have otherwise been ‘verified’ as a means to disarm someone into thinking they are someone else or doxing and harassing their ex-partner by posing as them in a dating site.

    This is commonly known as catfishing, there is limited formal research into impacts on victims often due to the shame carried by the victims.

    Catfishing became vernacular in popular culture after artist Nev Schulman made a documentary detailing his experience with being catfished by a woman named Angela. It transpired the practice was  disturbingly commonplace the documentary became a show on MTV with 8 series and spinoff specifically looking at predator trolling.

    Viewers are able to write in their suspicions and get help in confronting their “catfish”. This is a double edged situation has the acceptance of this behaviour as a cultural norm in this kind of communication, meant that we have lowered our tolerance threshold towards the damaging behaviour experienced online?

    The rise of informal peer support pages in social media,  shows that people who have experienced abuse – be it unwanted sexual images, explicit conversation or harassment – are looking for an outlet to share their experiences and gain support from peers.

    Pages like Bye Felipe, Tinder translators and Beam Me up Softboi invite  followers to send in Direct Message exchanges, dating profiles highlighting unacceptable online behaviour. The submissions range from ridiculous to terrifying. All submissions are deidentified and one assumes that formal outcomes haven’t been sought.

    These peer supports need to be taken into consideration when designing policy solution. The role they play in people unpacking  negative experience and behaviours they have been exposed to.

    This is an issue we need to address from multiple angles. There have long been calls for mandatory police/criminal record checks – this has become especially pronounced in the wake of the recent murder of Danielle Finlay-Jones, whose death could have been prevented through this mechanism.

    However, we must also recognise that the vast majority of perpetrators who exist in our society are unlikely to have a criminal history. For this reason, we need to work alongside industry to develop ways to disrupt ALL abuse. Along with developing a deeper understanding of who these perpetrators are and how they are using digital tools like dating apps to advance their agenda.

    • This article was written with thanks to Leah Dwyer, Director Of Policy and Advocacy at YWCA Canberra and Hannah Robertson, PhD Candidate at the ANU 

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